Nancy Weaver Divorce Coach

About Nancy

Hey there! It’s me, Nancy…

Every life is packed with stories worth telling, and no one can tell them better than the person who lived them. However, when you sit down to put it all into writing the blank page is the most intimidating yet inspiring part of any writing project. 

You have a record of life filled with good, bad, sad, encouraging, hopeful, painful, and courageous memoir. Your memoir is more than an autobiography that chronicles your existence, it’s your life on a page full of description and dialog, a window of your past.

It requires a kind of courage that few are willing or even able to muster. To say “What I once believed to be a fundamental truth I now see a misperception on my part.” 

Is to literally let go of your own personal history.

To change not only your current behaviors but to take on a new set of truths that requires you to admit that those old truths were indeed lies. Lies that perpetuated a way of life that almost always led to disaster in one form or another. 

This act of owning up to the false beliefs of your past and adopting new truths is a true act of courage.

We are all phenomenal human beings with courage inside of us.

Be grateful for each moment of life, even though you are in discomfort. Replace your fears with love, it is a new celestial kind of love brought about the courage to just be yourself and treasure your own magnificence.

Divorce is one of those moments. 

Abuse Was my Story

It took me 17 years and three daughters later to figure out my story and I had to figure out how to get out of this toxic relationship without affecting my children.

My story is a lifetime movie, it would take a book for you to understand. I lived in weakness and I gave up the true warrior in me, in exchange for approval and love for the illusion of safety.

I was a young girl at the age of 20, who married her boss that was 13 years older. I was coming from a place of fear rather than a place of love, a place of control and manipulation rather than a place of compassion and understanding.

I began to soul search and I asked myself these questions, “What voice am I listening to?” Am I listening to the voice of FEAR, POWERLESSNESS, INSECURITY?

I began to ask the right questions and I began to receive the voice of ACCEPTANCE, THE VOICE OF POWER, THE VOICE OF COURAGE, THE VOICE OF STRENGTH, THE VOICE OF FORGIVENESS.

I began to realize I had a choice and the power to choose what voice I was going to listen to.

It began one morning after a lot of prayers. My life had to change and I could no longer live this way. It wasn’t only about me but it was also about the safety of my three girls.

My focus shifted and my actions were unshakable choices. 

My desires and passion for life began to awaken.

A radiant crown of courage awakened and I decided to take action. I began the journey to build a life of love, courage, and confidence that I deeply deserved.

I could not change this man. And I shouldn’t spend the rest of my life trying to help someone that refused any help for themselves.

I began to become responsible for changing myself. It was my only weapon against abuse!

As a result, for the past 22 years, I became a professional Family Counselor. A certified Temperament/Personality Analyst, A Certified Divorce Coach and a Collaborative Professional. 

A Collaborative Professional empowers you to resolve your legal disputes without judges or court. 

I offer you a safe environment to reduce conflict and minimize its impact on you, your children, your family, and your life.

The temperament test results explain why you think the way you do, act the way do, and know the way you love and need to be loved. It’s a blueprint of who you are. It is the greatest tool ever to understand, who you are.

The best way to claim your life back is by turning your adversity into an advantage.

The restoration of my spirit and the decision to divorce became my passion to help others going through a divorce.

I strongly believe that every child deserves the highest level of quality of childhood life.

Divorce does not have to destroy our children and as their parents, there is something we can do about it!
My values originate from the purpose of life created by God. It begins with our own families that are extended to an increasingly broken world.

When families break apart for whatever the circumstance.

It does not mean it is all over! It can actually become a “New Beginning” if we do it right for the sake of our children.

As a result, I wrote a book, “What? My Parents Are Getting A Divorce? 

It opens to find a 10-year old boy wondering why his parents are taking him out for ice cream. When they break the news that they are divorcing, his life changed forever, and his heart and thoughts began to race wildly. 

 My legacy is to help guide and to equip every broken family to thrive in an ever-changing complicated world.

I never imagined myself divorced or emotionally, physically abused in a million years.

It turns out many women have or are in the same place I once was. It has been my cause to assist and educate and empower every woman or man going through abuse.

National Statistics say that every 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner.

It will be with great pleasure to help you through your divorce process by moving from your head to your heart, I will guide you step-by-step through what I call a courageous divorce.

Healing old thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors and become powerful and confident.

I offer a 60-MINUTE FREE DISCOVERY ZOOM CALL. 
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Let us talk about where you want to be, what decisions you need to make, and a plan for the process throughout this difficult time of your life.

Love,

Nancy Weaver

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